1. where is the line drawn for you at the point where a preference (or something that you enjoy) is a fetish? is it the use of 3rd party stimulation (porn, vibrators), roles (bondage, SBDM, role-playing), or when you just can't get aroused by anything else?
Hm...that's quite the fine line and gives fetish a pejorative connotation. I think the line is crossed when the 'preference' is the only way you can get off.
2. lola and a guy were debating the use of the word "hook up." i view it as sexual action ONLY (no dating, no dinner, just "come on over; i've got condoms"), and he viewed it as getting together to go to a movie or just hang out. is there a sexual or dating term that you've debated with a lover or other?
I'm thinking "hooking up" is getting together for sex.
3. Lola's married, but recently have had an ex-bf pursue her. even though she told him she was not interested, he kept emailing her and telling her he wanted to see her again, etc. if you are very much into someone and want to see/be with them, does a significant other matter to you?
I have some ex's and other female friends I keep in contact with (not for hooking up purposes). I try to be sensitive to their husband's/bf's appreciation of me being in contact with the woman in question. In some cases the contact has to be discreet, in others I'm just as good of buds with the woman as the man. So, it just depends.
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